Female orgasms and in-bed preferences

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Female orgasms and in-bed preferences

Here you will find the survey results about female orgasms and preferences in bed. This survey was made with 250 female responses and the final results are listed below.

Note: As has been indicated by a few the survey could have been worded better and included more questions to uncover additional scenarios and influences.

This survey was published on Reddit

Which method(s) most frequently get her to reach orgasm:(Multiple answers allowed)

  • 49% – Penetration + Manual Stimulation
  • 41% – Fingering + Clitoral Stimulation
  • 39% – Oral + manual stimulation
  • 38% – Cunnilingus Alone
  • 29% – Penetration alone

Best position for her to achieve orgasm

  • 17% – Missionary/man on top – with your legs bent or wrapped around him
  • 6% – Missionary Traditional
  • 5% – Missionary/man on top – deck chair / folded deck chair / anvil
  • 21% – Girl on top – Cowgirl
  • 9% – Doggy style/rear-entry – girl lying on stomach (jockey / flat-iron / etc)
  • 8% – Doggy style/rear-entry – girl on all fours
  • 6% – Doggy style/rear-entry – girl kneeling/leaning down
  • (13% – Rarely or never orgasm during vaginal sex no matter what position)

Second best position for her to achieve orgasm

  • 18% – Missionary/man on top – with your legs bent or wrapped around him
  • 6% – Missionary/man on top – deck chair / folded deck chair / anvil
  • 5% – Missionary traditional
  • 14% – Girl on top – Cowgirl
  • 9% – Doggy style/rear-entry – girl lying on stomach (jockey / flat-iron / etc)
  • 6% – Doggy style/rear-entry – girl kneeling/leaning down
  • 6% – Doggy style/rear-entry – girl on all fours
  • 5% – Spoons
  • (14% – rarely or never orgasm during vaginal sex no matter what position)

How long does it take her to reach orgasm in her favorite position

  • 28% – 5-10 Minutes
  • 27% – 3-5 Minutes
  • 16% – 0-3 Minutes
  • 17% – More than 15 Minutes
  • 12% – 10-15 Minutes

How long does it take her to reach orgasm in her second favorite position

  • 27% – 5-10 Minutes
  • 24% – 3-5 Minutes
  • 18% – More than 15 Minutes
  • 16% – 10-15 Minutes
  • 9% – 0-3 Minutes

The survey didn’t take into account the amount foreplay or other stimulation helping her reach orgasm during PIV sex, but the numbers skewed slightly lower than we expected with 33% being able to reach orgasm in <= 5 minutes, and 60% in total being able to achieve orgasm in less than <= 10 minutes.

During sex which type of motion is best to best to get you to orgasm

  • 31% – Combination of the above (Grinding, Slow, fast)
  • 20% – Fast/vigorous thrusting
  • 20% – Rocking/grinding together

During vaginal intercourse how long does he usually last before ejaculating

  • 30% – 5-10 Minutes
  • 27% – More than 15 Minutes
  • 23% – 10-15 Minutes
  • 10% – 3-5 Minutes
  • 5% – 0-3 Minutes

Based on this response versus the previous two, it appears that on average men last long enough to satisfy them.

When her partner is manually stimulating her what technique is preferred?

  • 64% – Clitoral stimulation + Fingering
  • 23% – Clitoral stimulation only
  • 10% – Fingering only

If you like fingering, what kind of stimulation do you prefer

  • 50% – Moderate thrusting
  • 37% – Gentle Internal Massage
  • 26% – Forceful thrusting

When being fingered, how many fingers does she prefer him to use

  • 71% – Two Fingers
  • 15% – One Finger

Where do women prefer him to ejaculate?

  • 67% – In her vagina
  • 32% – On her stomach
  • 29% – On her breasts
  • 23% – In her mouth
  • 22% – On her back/butt
  • 11% – On her face

When he is about to cum the vast majority of women who responded (72%) prefer him to finish inside her as opposed to using any type of hand, mouth or breast stimulation to help him finish.

Other notable responses: 24% Help him finish with her mouth, 19% Let him finish himself with his hand, 17% Help him finish with her hand.

When he ejaculates inside her the majority of women who responded (59%) like the feeling when he keeps thrusting after he cums. 30% wanted him to stop after he cums so they can go clean up.

When he pulls out and ejaculates on her vagina or pubic hair, the majority of women(46%) want him to stop so they can go clean up.

But 31% like when he uses his penis to rub the cum around her clit and tease her. 14% also like him to put his penis back in and start thrusting again.

When he pulls out and ejaculates somewhere else on her body, 62% like to stop and go clean it up. But 20% like to use their fingers or tongue to lick it up and 17% like to rub it around.

Previous results
First, thank you to everyone for your responses and honest answers. We received about 70 female responses.

A quick results summary is below. Link to the survey is also below if anyone wants to see the original questions again or hasn’t taken it yet.

Which method(s) most frequently get her to reach orgasm:(Multiple answers allowed)

  • 47% – Cunnilingus Alone
  • 47% – Fingering + Clitoral Stimulation
  • 47% – Penetration + Manual Stimulation
  • 36% – Oral + manual stimulation
  • 32% – Penetration alone

Best position for her to achieve orgasm: (Top 3 responses included)

  • 26% – Missionary with her legs bent or wrapped around him
  • 25% – Girl on top – Cowgirl
  • 8% – Doggie-style girl kneeling/leaning down
  • 8% – Missionary Traditional
  • 8% – Missionary – Deck chair / folded deck chair / anvil

Second best position for her to achieve orgasm: (Top 3 responses included)

  • 17% Doggy style/rear-entry – girl lying on stomach (jockey / flat-iron / etc)
  • 17% Girl on top – Cowgirl
  • 14% Missionary/man on top – with your legs bent or wrapped around him

Overall looks like tried and true missionary variants and Cowgirl are by far the go to for her to orgasm, not totally surprising but was somehow expecting more exotic positions to be the go to a higher portion of the time.

How long does it take her to reach orgasm in her favorite position

  • 26% – 3-5 Minutes
  • 26% – 5-10 Minutes
  • 18% – 0-3 Minutes
  • 17% – More than 15 Minutes

How long does it take her to reach orgasm in her second favorite position

  • 28% – 3-5 Minutes
  • 28% – 5-10 Minutes
  • 17% – More than 15 Minutes

The survey didn’t take into account the amount foreplay or other stimulation helping her reach orgasm during PIV sex, but the numbers skewed slightly lower than we expected with 44% being able to reach orgasm in <= 5 minutes, but it is in-line with some of the recent national surveys on ideal length of time for sex to last. And is perhaps good news for the men out there who aren't marathoners.

During sex which type of motion is best to best to get you to orgasm

  • 32% – Combination of the above (Grinding, Slow, fast)
  • 24% – Fast/vigorous thrusting
  • 19% – Rocking/grinding together

During vaginal intercourse how long does he usually last before ejaculating

  • 33% – 5-10 Minutes
  • 26% – More than 15 Minutes
  • 21% – 10-15 Minutes

Based on this response versus the previous two, it appears for most of our responders that their men last long enough to satisfy them.

When her partner is manually stimulating her what technique is preferred?

  • 57% – Clitoral stimulation + Fingering
  • 26% – Clitoral stimulation only
  • 10% – Fingering only

If you like fingering, what kind of stimulation do you prefer

  • 47% – Moderate thrusting
  • 31% – Gentle Internal Massage
  • 29% – Forceful thrusting

When being fingered, how many fingers does she prefer him to use

  • 65% – Two Fingers

Where do women prefer their men to ejaculate?

  • 65% In her vagina
  • 33% on her stomach
  • 31% On her breasts
  • 21% In her mouth
  • 21% On her back/butt

When he is about to cum the vast majority of women who responded (68%) prefer him to finish inside her as opposed to using any type of hand, mouth or breast stimulation to help him finish.

When he ejaculates inside her the majority of women who responded (53%) like the feeling when he keeps thrusting after he cums. 26% wanted him to stop after he cums so they can go clean up.

When he pulls out and ejaculates on her vagina or pubic hair, the majority of women(47%) want him to stop so they can go clean up.

But 31% like when he uses his penis to rub the cum around her clit and tease her. 15% also like him to put his penis back in and start thrusting again.

When he pulls out and ejaculates somewhere else on her body, 54% like to stop and go clean it up. But 22% like to use their fingers or tongue to lick it up and 18% like to rub it around.

Not a big surprise here either, but given the forum we expected a bit more of a skew toward kinkier post-cum activity.

If you want to see the full results you can contact the editor.

Thanks again for your responses.


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