Having sex in public is one of the ultimate fantasies for adrenaline junkies with an exhibitionist passion.
Getting it on with the risk of getting caught is a naughty and forbidden treat that instantly brings excitement and passion to your sex life.
Do you want to step up your public sex game? Here’s how to do it without getting caught.
START A LIST OF PLACES
Always plan it beforehand. Make a list of places where you’d love to get it on. Your imagination and a bit of common sense are your only limitations.
If the weather is good, go wild on the beach, in a park, in the woods or underneath the stars. If it’s cold try an indoor place that’s still public such as the movies, a dressing room or the library. Just imagine which places make you the most excited.
SEMI-PUBLIC SEX IS GREAT
You don’t need to be fully exposed with people nearby for sex to count as public. Just try semi-public sex that has enough risk to make it exciting but not so much that you’ll head home with a public indecency charge.
Try a place that’s somewhat concealed, like under a bridge, in your car or even in the single occupancy bathroom of a fancy restaurant.
To start small, give it a go in your own backyard, balcony, deck, rooftop or in front of a window.
SCOUT THE LOCATION
Spontaneous sex is exciting but checking out your place of passion ahead of time can reduce the chances of getting caught.
Be careful to look for security areas, cameras or people who might be working nearby. Find a private spot that’s a little daring but not so out in the open that everyone passing by will see you.
DRESS EASY
You’ll want to dress for easy access and easy recovery. You don’t want to wear pants with a zipper that sticks or that needs to be pulled down to your ankles.
Choose something that you can easily and discreetly maneuver, plus baggy boxers. Your lady might consider a skirt that pulls up quickly and a thong that pulls to the side.
Better yet leave THOSE panties at home. If someone happens to turn the corner, you can quickly get it together and look normal without struggling to shimmy up your pants.
ASSUME THE POSITION
Not every position is right for getting it on in public. If you’re on a beach in the middle of the night, you can probably get away with missionary or girl on top.
If you’re trying to look casual while looking over a balcony or even against the wall at a crowded club, you’ll have you be more discreet.
For these situations, standing sex should be your go-to. It’s stealthy enough to look like a steamy make-out session and flexible enough that you can get away with it almost anywhere.
If someone happens to notice, you can quickly stand up and adjust to look normal again.
KEEP IT QUICK
This isn’t the time for a long drawn-out lovemaking session. Expedience is the key for making a quickie.
Public sex is meant to be a passionate, fast, endorphin- and adrenaline-fueled experience with a gotta-have-you-now urgency.
BRING SOME BUZZ
Sometimes a quickie can leave one of you unsatisfied, especially if your partner craves foreplay.
To make sure you both reach your peak quickly, bring a small, pocket-sized vibrator to heighten sensation during sex.
It’s an instant boost of pleasure that will help turn her on and get you both off in a hurry so you can both leave feeling satisfied.
CONTROL YOUR VOLUME AND FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
Public sex is no place for screamers. Minimize your risk of getting caught by keeping your moans and pleasure-twisted faces in check.
Lower the volume and your expressions to only the bare necessities, even if you have to turn around to hide your orgasm face.
PACK BABY WIPES AND A BRUSH
This not only helps with cleanup but it will leave you both looking and feeling fresh.
Fast, passionate sex in public can lead to some mess and if you’re thinking about re-joining the public after getting it on in a restaurant’s bathroom, you can freshen up and tame your wild sex-hair.