Group sex is a logistical nightmare

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Group sex is a logistical nightmare

For young men of a certain temperament, the word orgy almost has a hypnotic and exciting effect.

The mention of an orgy creates a pitch of excitement and expectation that sends all common sense flying out of the window.

Here you will find some advises for your ultimate sex group experience.

Have realistic expectations

Young men’s misguided fantasies of “a porn-perfect orgy” can detract from the experience—like making them forget that group sex is a shared encounter.

They miss that the others involved are real people with real feelings, and with their own expectations.

Many guys are so excited which results in premature ejaculation because of insanely high expectations of what an orgy should be.

More than anything, those assumptions overlook the simpler truth, which is that if you want to know how good an orgy you’re in for, you should probably take note of the regular sex you’re having, since it’s unlikely to be that much of a departure.

In other words, if you’re having trouble hitting the high notes in the confines of your bedroom, it’s not like it’s all going to suddenly come together when you find yourself headlining.

Plan ahead

Everyone wishes that life could be like the plot of classic porn—a couple of hot chicks wander casually into your apartment and after some bad dialogue, in which someone observes how hot it is, everyone promptly strips off and gets to fucking.

However, planning sexual adventures in advance allows an opportunity for the discussion of boundaries and consent, “which gives you a lot more confidence during the main event.

Groupsex is a logistical nightmare

It seems like the best orgies going on in the world probably happen in those group sex clubs, where the participants are vetted in advance and everyone is carefully coached to get the most out of the experience.

Although there’s something really shitty about turning sex into such a formalized encounter, it does at least acknowledge the reality that fucking is much more of a skill than most of us will admit. You can’t just wing it.

Choose your location carefyully

A successful group sex location should exude a certain air of luxury. But unless luxury smells like carpet cleaner, we’d definitely picked the wrong place.

Anyone who hears those words—”industrial estate” and “just before you hit the flyover”—en route to an orgy should immediately reconsider their plans.

But my mind had been frazzled by the incredible opportunity life had suddenly thrown at me and there was only one word coming at me loud and clear on that cold, northern night. Orgy! Orgy! Orgy!

An orgy is only as good as its leader

Group sex is no different to any other group event, in that it needs someone to get things going.

The initiator needs to be a good leader and make the introduction to spice things up.

He or she should be making the sphere that everyone feels comfortable and in the end horny as hell.

Groupsex is a logistical nightmare

Choose your partners carefully

You should have your first orgy with people you know!

This avoids misunderstanding and helps put everyone at ease. “Comfort is everything, you can graduate to the excitement of strangers after you have a few successful experiences and figure out what you, and others, may like.

Whatever happens, you’ll survive

Real intimacy is something that few people ever experience.

And while we crave it, we are also scared to hell of it. It’s hard to find intimacy in a group because it’s hard to get beyond that sense of being on display.

The sad reality of many group encounters is that dispiriting phenomenon where the accumulation of minds and souls has a paradoxically inverse effect on everyone’s general intelligence and morality.


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